Aunt Alice was an opinionated woman who had to be the leader in all circumstances. She did help anyone who needed help and was the leader of the clan. She always was nice to me when we visited many times during my grade school days. Dates from grave stones that I have visited several times. When she was old, as usually happened, she could not take care of the house and it became dirty. Finally, she sold her personal possessions and moved in with a neighbor who kept elderly. She lived only a few months.